"I don't believe God exists" Mike the barber said in a matter of fact way. It started simply enough at the barbershop Bill went to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed.
As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation, telling stories as usual. They talked about politics and the elections, the state of the economy, their families and kids.
When they eventually touched on the subject of God, Mike the barber said: 'I don't believe that God exists.'
"Why do you say that?" asked Bill.
"Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn't exist. Tell me Bill, if God exists, would there be so many sick people? Would there be abandoned children? If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain. I can't imagine a loving God who would allow all of these things."
Bill thought for a moment, but didn't respond because he didn't want to start an argument.
Mike finished his barbering job and Bill left the shop. Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard. He looked dirty and unkempt.
Bill turned back and entered the barbershop again and he said to Mike, the barber:
"You know what? Barbers do not exist."
"How can you say that?' asked the surprised barber. "I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!"
"No!" Bill exclaimed.
"'Barbers don't exist because if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside."
"Ah, but barbers DO exist! That's what happens when people do not come to me."
"Exactly!' Bill affirmed.
"That's the point! God, too, DOES exist! And that's what happens when people do not come to God too."
Finding Comfort in the Mystery
As we navigate the complexities of faith and doubt, it's natural to encounter questions and uncertainties. The debate about God's existence can be particularly challenging when faced with suffering and pain. However, as the Psalmist reminds us, "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea." (Psalm 46:1-2) This verse encourages us to find comfort in God's presence, even when we don't have all the answers.
It's essential to acknowledge that our understanding of God's ways may be limited. The Bible tells us that "God's ways are not our ways, nor are his thoughts our thoughts" (Isaiah 55:8). Rather than trying to fully comprehend the mysteries of God's existence, we can focus on cultivating a deeper sense of trust and faith. This might involve setting aside time for prayer, meditation, or mindfulness practices that help us connect with our inner selves and the world around us. By doing so, we can begin to experience a sense of peace and comfort that transcends our intellectual understanding.
As we explore the question of God's existence, let's also remember the importance of empathy and compassion. When we encounter individuals who are struggling with doubt or pain, we can offer a listening ear and a supportive presence. As Jesus taught us, "Love your neighbor as yourself" (Mark 12:31). By showing kindness and understanding to those around us, we can create a sense of community and connection that helps us navigate life's challenges together. Ultimately, our search for meaning and purpose can be a powerful catalyst for growth, healing, and spiritual exploration.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q:If God exists, why is there so much suffering in the world?
This is a question that has puzzled many people throughout history. The existence of suffering does not necessarily disprove God's existence, but rather it can be seen as a test of faith and an opportunity for growth and redemption. As the Bible says, 'We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope' (Romans 5:3-4).
Q:How can I reconcile my faith in God with the presence of evil and pain?
Reconciling faith with the presence of evil and pain can be a challenging but ultimately rewarding journey. The Bible acknowledges the existence of evil and pain, but also emphasizes God's love and sovereignty. As it says, 'God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea' (Psalm 46:1-2).
Q:Can I still find spiritual meaning and purpose if I don't believe in God?
While a belief in God can be a source of spiritual meaning and purpose, it is not the only source. Many people find meaning and purpose through other spiritual practices, such as meditation, mindfulness, and connection with nature. However, for many people, a relationship with God is a key part of their spiritual journey and provides a sense of purpose and direction. As the Bible says, 'You have made known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand' (Psalm 16:11).
Q:How can I respond to someone who says God doesn't exist because of suffering?
When responding to someone who questions God's existence due to suffering, it's essential to listen empathetically and acknowledge their concerns. You can then share your perspective on God's character and the role of free will in the world. For example, you might say, 'I understand why you might think that, but for me, my faith in God is not about the absence of suffering, but about the presence of love and redemption. As the Bible says, 'For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future' (Jeremiah 29:11).
